Jesus said we should pray and say: 'forgive us our trespasses as we've forgiven those who trespass against us.' We ought to forgive that we may also be forgiven. As Pep said, its hard to forgive yourself as a person but Paul says there is therefore no condemnation to those who are in Christ. Remember as u are now a child of God u are a new creation behold old things have passed away, so we ought to forgive and forget whatever happened in the past.

I say a new creation is born of God,the Word,and of the Spirit,the word behold all things are become new is a greek word which see by the eyes of faith and of the Spirit.A new creation is an ongoing process we are in a mission of being conformed into likeness and or image of Jesus Christ,we all have to agree with what God says in His Word,this is not a matter of feelings or seeing with your natural eyes a change but with God eyes.Companionship with God will transform the way we see.Thank you.We need to accept forgiveness from God and walk in it and forgive all that has wronged us as God has forgave us through Christ.

Let go of the fomer things and stretch yourself towards what is ahead.

time to be realistic forgiveness costs,you may find it HARD to forgive but its worth it at the end.

Yes Lyttccpo. It looks so hard & heavy & it is surely difficult but its worth it.