Mmm.steps 2 tek as 2 hav a gudlyf...i thnk thea r a lot of them..i thnk first,u must hav luv...luv z d major thng.u nid 2 luv evry1 around u.wel,evn tho u cnt plz evry1,@least u wl recive luv frm otha pple..once u hav luv,u feel in plec..then all d thngs folow..peace,joy,kindnes,harmony n so on..dats a gud lyf i guess..