Before angthing else,onething you must realize is that you were created & born to succeed.He says fill the earth & subdue it,be masters(Gen1:28..)God actually created conquerors,failure is as a result of our own faults.'To fail in life is to have worked against the divine plan of God'through sin. People have different view about success but you unknowingly have been acting according to a standard by which you unconsciously set for yourself(NOTE No one becomes a failure by another man's standard)your failure to attain your own set standard is what constitutes your failure. Ask questions?