One song put it lyk ths that love is not a place to come and go as we please but its a place we stay and commit.
Whch is true.

Love is selfless, understanding, patience, kind, meek, etc. If love is selfless then it has no bounderies to love one but to be in love with one. If it is understanding then it should start with self first. In self, you look at your purpose because who ever you are/going to be in love with has be in line with your purpose. Patience is having the ability to stand and wait for your aligned partner. In short love is a lifestyle unlike a feeling that comes and goes, for me love with someone is forever no matter the cir tance or situation but adultery. She should be a God fearing person and not any church goer.