I THINK PEOPLE SAY THAT CUZ OF THE WAY THEY WHERE BROUGHT UP ! LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT GROW SO IF U WAS BROUGHT UP WITHOUT LOVE , THEN ITS HARD TO LEAVE UP TO YOUR WORDS ! AND DON'T U KNOW IN THIS WORLD , I LOVE YOU , IS SO COMMON I DON'T EVEN WANT 2 USE IT ! I RATHER USE MY - NEXT TIME I WILL LET U KNOW ! HA HA