I've been in a relationship for 6 months w/ a man who has been hurt more then the avg person. In the beginning he was so sweet and romantic. Now he has clammed. He tells me he loves me but never trys to go out of his way for me or make me feel special. He's told me he needs time to learn how to trust but still after 6 mns I still see no change. Do I hang in there?How do I get him out of this shell?