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@sgonondo | |
hey peeps! i have a problem. i.m datin a white chick everything was going fine until i came us with the smart idea of introducing her to my parents. my mother was cool wit her. but my ol man went crazy. i didn't know he hated white ppl so much til dat day. my question now is do i carry on wit da relationship knowing that i do not have the blessing of my father. or do i stop dating her? |
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@godd3sss | 15 July 06 |
It all boils dwn to hw much u actually love her. Ur father will eventually have 2 understand that she makes u happy. All parents want happiness for their kids!
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@sgonondo | 16 July 06 |
thanks godess excelent advice. keep up wit da deep poetry. saw your site da other day.
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@godd3sss | 21 July 06 |
Just expressing ma self. Nuthing serious.
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@hlauzen | 11 August 06 |
I would i advise u to stick with her if u trully love her. Finding true love is hard and if u do find it, its worth fighting for! Just make sure the feeling is mutual before making major decisions!
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@hlauzen | 11 August 06 |
Finding true love is hard and if u do find it, its worth fighting for! Just make sure the feeling is mutual before making major decisions!
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@bigliar | 26 October 06 |
being multi-racial myself. Live Life 4 U Not 4 Closed Minded parents. Half Of Us Wouldn't B Here. Follow Ur Heart Not The Father.
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@mzekes | 8 November 06 |
Hey ppl of Mzansi
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@bren88 | 22 November 06 |
I beleive that your life is your own & if you love this gal, GO 4 IT! But try to make ur father understand ur feelings 4 the gal, after all he is ur father! U do get parents only once in ur life.
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@thandwa | 2 January 07 |
man sgo im sorry 4 da fact dat u r trapped in dat kind of a situation but i'd say luv is luv i mean no matter how hard u try 2 stop it,u wont sucseed! u love her!!! ur old man must understand ...u love here...
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@thandwa | 2 January 07 |
man sgo im sorry 4 da fact dat u r trapped in dat kind of a situation but i'd say luv is luv i mean no matter how hard u try 2 stop it,u wont sucseed! u love her!!! ur old man must understand ...u love her...
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@softbaby | 10 January 07 |
go 4 da luv my friend. my parents acepts my blk bf bt his doesnt want me in da fam. and we stil going 2 get married. and no 1 is going 2 stop it. if the tru love is realy there u have my blessing.
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@centias | 12 March 07 |
if u really luv her n happy with her u shud nt stop seeing her bcz ur dad has a problem with whites. I think his one of the old ppl who stil believe dat whites took everythin frm black during the apartheid tym. atleast u gt ur mom's blessings and ur dad does nt knw dat we all human @ the end whether white or black. Im also black in Datin a white guy n my dad does nt lyk it bt i hvnt stop seein him. Ur dad haas nt right 2 tell u who u mst date n nt date. Jst follow ur heart
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@tishena | 20 April 07 |
If ur father has a problem with that and u dont, i dont think ur father's beliefs should be our beliefs. Live ur life for whats it worth not for what u think its worth. Do what makes u happy
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@eizzy | 24 March 08 |
Lyk wat evry1 has already said, if u love her, stay wid her...break the barrier ur father has put up between black n white, break d chain he proberbly got 4rm his father, all it doez is hold us bak...there realy aint no difference between us, we 1blood, just c*m in diff packagez lol. Dnt wry, ur old man will eventualy c*m round if he is wise.
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@tsheno | 15 June 08 |
personally, i think inter-racial relationships r the way forward. this gives both of ya'll an opportunity to explore each others' worlds n get to understand why they do certain things in a certain way. this whole thing with our parents telling us about not mixing with others is just wrong. mwah!!!
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@makosi | 15 July 09 |
NEVA DO ANYTHING AGAINST UR PARENTS WISHES THEY R UR GODS AND DISOBEY UPSET OR PROVOKE THM AT UR PERIL
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@birach | 28 June 13 |
heya any1 wanna chat x bud me x x x
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