well first of all a lover must be able to see through you,and still enjoy the view.and a healthy relationship means falling in love many times.with the same person.these are the basic things in a healthy relationship.now,if you are a christian,and your pathner isnt.you're headed into very serious trouble.it neva works out like that.its either 2 christians or 2 non-christians in a relationship that would stand a better chance or working out.for more on this topic.keep checking this group.and i'll keep you posted on more tips.thank you!