U know it hurts wen u c them wit sum one else and u say its okay wen they ask u how u feel abt it i know ive been there just hang on in time u could get wat u want i didnt get the guy i liked though we were close 4 a long time b4 he started seeing this gal our friendship was strained by age and the different paths we chose 2 take so eventually our friendship ended. But there are success stories but thats 4 another time.