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WEIGH YOUR WORDS ~ When a glass is broken, the sound of breaking disappears immediately where as the glass pieces are scattered over the ground hurting whoever walks over it. . Similarly, when we say something that hurts people emotions and feelings, the voice disappears immediately but the hearts remains in pain for long. . Therefore, don't say anything, except good and remember always the nine advises and prohibitions that Allah All Mighty gave us in Surah Al Hujuraat before we say something to anyone: . 1- : Fa Tabayyanoo- Investigate: if we received any information lest we harm people out of ignorance. ~ 2 - : Fa Aslihoo - Make settlement: between your brothers as believers are brothers. ~ 3- : Wa Aqsitoo- Act justly: whenever there is a dispute try for settlement and act justly among both parties as Allah loves who acts justly. ~ 4 - : La Yaskhar - do not ridicule: people, perhaps they may be better than you to Allah. ~ 5 - : Wa La Talmizoo- Do not insult: one another. ~ 6- : Wa La Tanabazu- Do not call offensive nicknames: each other. ~ 7- : Ijtanibu Katheeran minazZan- avoid negative assumptions, indeed some of the assumptions are sin. ~ 8 - : Wa La Tajas-sasu- and don't spy on each other. ~ 9- : Wa La Yagtab- Do not backbite each other: as its a major sin and like eating your dead brother's flesh. ~ As was said When looking for faults we must use a mirror not a telescope. ~ ZahrahITCWOL |
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