dudes i met dis guy bck at secondary school ..when ever he wants to ask a girl out... he tries to make tis grand gesture ...he starts acting cool...starts forcing him self into the cool kids group just to impress a girl.so that when he strikes she will have to say yes...i know ladies love cool guys....but they also love...guys.that.are true to demselves ..not changing dere personality or something from my past experince ask her out...if u want to.be yrself say evrytin and how u feel nd u will b ok...