u say u can give advice well i got a problem i dont think u can help with. i have two guys fighting over me yet i dont want either of them and the guy i do wanna b with dose wanna meet me but i feel he dont want a relationship, some times he puts in so much effort but other time he just dont try at all and feels like i put in all the effort, tho i have not met him i have spoke to him for a very long time and i know i love him but i dont know if he feels the same so what should i do? keep try or give up and how do i go about it?