Metal is known to be an aggressive and violent music,yeah, at somepoint it seems to be true. But it depends on the way you view,as for me it gives me peace and happines. That doesn't mean that I simply lie motionless and listens metal..ha.ha..don't get me wrong! The headbangs,the moshpits,etc...without those what's the point in being a metalhead? Okay,what I really meant to say is that Metal doesn't spoiled you(it's just a ing music).You are the sole master of you thoughts and actions(not to mention God). That's it! Long live Metal!